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The Reason People Don’t Smile Around Campus

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When I think of the blues, I picture an old man sitting in a rocking chair fiddeling on a beat up guitar. His hands represent the quality of his lifeline: scarred and callused beyond belief. Behind him, a house is in bad shape although it is complimented by sunny and warming New Orleans sky.

The blues is unique because it expresses a dark mood for the purpose of creating a lighter mood. As Michigan propels into the winter this year, I feel the dark mood.

The physical darkness of the winter really takes a toll on people. The days continuously get shorter and colder while memories of sunny days fade away. This whole phenomenon is characterized by a disorder called SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder). Wikepedia explains:

Seasonal affective disorder (SAD), also known as winter depression or winter blues, is a mood disorder in which people who have normal mental health throughout most of the year experience depressive symptoms in the winter or, less frequently, in the summer,[1] repeatedly, year after year.

It also explains that it can be treated through light therapy. For example, having well lit rooms in a home apparently makes a real difference.

The blues picture is painted even more with the economic crisis slapping everyone around. Everybody knows somebody who has lost a job. On a better note, this economic crisis hasn’t hit everyone. Some communities seem unphased with gaudy jewelry and practices such as tossing money in the air; otherwise known as “making it rain”. You need to show this forbearance and make it rain in your life.

Although it is nearly impossible we have to stay healthy to combat this seasonal blues song. Not only physically, but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. We take care of our physical health most, but the other three are equally important.

brandonjb advises a few quick fixes for winter blues:

Pray everyday
Communicate your opinions everyday
Engage in deep thought alone everyday
Play basketball everyday

Don’t let your winter become a blues song. Use the winter to give yourself that light mood of the old man.

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November 23, 2008 at 5:38 pm

My New About Page

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Times ago, I blogged on WordPress. We had a great relationship.

I felt as if we were made for each other. We united for one cause: to produce a semi- updated blog that was scarcely read. Life was good.

Then one day our relationship was tarnished. It struck like lightning! A new site had mugged me and stole my heart. A young trendy site that boasted indie bands and a the key to its heart. It offered me seamless control of my whole site. uber.com blew me a kiss, and in it was packaged a blog.

I moved all of my things. I transferred quickly. The guilt of leaving pained me. In a flash, I was gone. I let WordPress keep my old blogs. I could never completely cut it off. I wanted to keep WordPress. Only as a backup though. Somewhere to go when I needed to vent or let something go. Something to fall back on.

Meanwhile, my new love uber gave me everything I needed. My views jumped. I was starting to become attached; what was once just a friendly account turned very serious.

Then that day came.

I went to uber.com to update my blog and I read these crushing words:

We’re moving to a new home.
Sorry for the inconvenience we should be up soon.
Sign up for notifications here.
-uber

Those words gave me no direction. I had nowhere to blog.

All of this time WordPress had been strong. Thriving without a thought of me. The site that I treated so wrong, seemed so right.

It invited me back with open arms. I always thought I was the strong one, but WordPress didn’t need me to thrive. I needed it.

Now I’m back with WordPress. I just hope our future outshines our past. Who knows what this blog will produce. I’m just glad to be in with WordPress.

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October 22, 2008 at 7:13 pm

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More Of The Same (Not about McCain)

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I’m back.
uber shut down in a Soprano like fashion.
I’ll be blogging from Wordress.
Obama 08′

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October 22, 2008 at 6:00 pm

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